I am not what has happened to me.
I am what I choose to become.
Carl Jung
All of life is about how we respond and react to what is happening. Our response-ability. In the end we can only control what we do, what we think, and how we act. Every experience is a chance to grow and evolve. We are so much more than the sum of things we have done or done to us. The question always is: Now what? Who are we now?