No I did not say "grits". And this is NOT another rant about Paula Dean. 🙂
I said grit—"The perseverance and passion for long term goals." Or the "abrasive particles or granules that facilitate grinding."
I think both are needed. A persistent attitude that pushes you to practice and to improve. And friction of reality along the way to keep you focused.
So grit plus grit equals success. Grit squared.
The path to success is a grinding process of honing, of shaping, of refining your skills knowledge and abilities. Without the friction of reality and the dogged persistence.
Deliberate practice, operationally defined as studying and memorizing words while alone, better predicted performance in the National Spelling Bee than being quizzed by others or reading for pleasure. Rated as the most effortful and least enjoyable type of preparation activity, deliberate practice was increasingly favored over being quizzed as spellers accumulated competition experience.
Deliberate Practice Spells Success:
Why Grittier Competitors Triumph at the
National Spelling Bee Anglea Lee Duckworth et al
This grit comes from your heart your commitment to pushing the rock up the hill and understanding the purpose. It is the alignment of your heart and your work. You know when you are out of alignment. You know when you start packing your bag at 4:50pm everyday. You also know when you are energized and exhausted at the same time. This grit can not be purchased. It is acquired and reinforced through your wholehearted engagement. This grit emerges from the work to extract the beauty and meaning from your efforts.
Does not necessarily or exclusively come from your day job. But you have to exercise and grow your grit muscles. You can get your grit on in your volunteer life, at your church, at your kid's school. Where is your grit and how can you make a bigger part of your life?
One of the most influential ways to re-activate your grit is to dive into the need. When you see how your product and service is used. When you talk to the people who need your solution. When you feel the emotional connection people make to your work, it reconnects you with purpose. "Ahhh, that's why I do this."
Make time to visit your "customers", hear their stories, see their faces, and re-immerse yourself in mission.
This is grit that wakes you up from the monotony of your routine and your habits. This is the grit with friction that afflicts the comfortable.
It is a virtuous cycle of grit begets grit. To get grit you give grit.
Thanks for reading. John